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Facts Tell

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“If you’ve heard this story before, don’t stop me, because I’d like to hear it again.” ~~ Groucho Marx

We are a species that loves a good story and enjoy sharing it. Some people I know always have a new joke and deliver it with enthusiasm, employing voices and gestures that accentuate the action. Stories are the oldest communication format and were passed through generations before the advent of more permanent technology—like the written word.

Anecdotes are a powerful way to share your message and you can empower your network with memorable success stories, as well.

The best narrative is to consider one related to your best client (see week three for examples.) Profile this client completely (see week 31) and develop a story that helps your network find other similar clients.

Let’s dissect a good story.

Who. An engaging beginning defines who we want to meet and sets the stage for the pending action. Use demographics to define this individual fully—including number of employees, years in business, etc.

What. Why. The action-packed middle of the story should introduce the problem your client experienced and some ineffective actions taken or consequences faced before you arrived on the scene.

How. When. Your success stories should always have a Happy Ending. Describe how you solved the problem. This is the part of the story that gets repeated the most often. Include facts, figures, and statistics that matter.

Develop these stories and write them down so you can refer to them as needed. Treat them like a key-ring, each designed to open a specific door. Have a story or three for every target market you serve, every benefit you provide, and every objection you might face.


© 2017 by Stephen Hand of Triangle BNI.
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Written by bniguy

September 24, 2017 at 11:56 am

Posted in communication, HowTo

The Rubber Meets the Road

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“What information consumes is rather obvious: it consumes the attention of its recipients. Hence a wealth of information creates a poverty of attention, and a need to allocate that attention efficiently among the overabundance of information sources that might consume it.”~~Herbert Simon

Testimonials influence us in many subtle ways and range from professional to personal. Advertisers appreciate this and pay for celebrity endorsements, despite a healthy skepticism from consumers. At a subconscious level, though, people that admire Michael Jordan might reason that, “If it’s good enough for him its good enough for me.” Pressed to consider this point, most would deny the influence and yet advertisers that study cause and effect can measure the influence regardless of how independent we think we are.

The next level of professional endorsements that influence buying decisions come from reviewers. These include movie reviewers, restaurant critics, product advisors, and so on. At a simple level we might check a movie review when deciding whether or not to see it although we can appreciate that the reviewer doesn’t know or perhaps even share our taste exactly. We can get a more convincing endorsement from a friend who has seen the film and knows our likes and dislikes. These personal endorsements (or warnings) are much more powerful, although less frequently sought.

A third category emerges, sandwiched between the professional and personal and that is the testimonial provided by non-professionals.

This is the focus of this week’s topic.

Testimonials from other customers can be powerful in moving us to take action. Many customers offer them in an informal, unsolicited manner. One way to encourage this behavior, by the way, is to give away an item with your logo on it. People like to help one another, generally, and will recommend a proven solution and include a personal story of the benefit received. Most satisfied customers will provide more formal testimonials, if asked.

Often, however, when willing they get hung up on exactly what to say and by providing guidance you can resolve that, too.

There is more of an art than a science as to determining when to ask. Once you start to recognize this, opportunities will present themselves regularly. Let’s consider this scenario. One month before completion of a long-term project you ask your client how they are enjoying the process, so far. If they announce that you have made a huge difference in their operations and saved them a lot of time and expense, ask if they would be willing to share that with other customers by writing that on their company letterhead. Coach them on pertinent issues such as why they chose to work with you, what benefits have they experienced that they did not expect, and so on. This conversation will make it easier for them to complete this favor. Negotiate a delivery date.

Once you have these testimonials in hand then consider placement. Some companies print them and leave them in the lobby for waiting room clients to see. Others have a page on their website or sprinkle them in various places throughout the website. Each method has its advantages and disadvantages.

Whatever model you use, be certain to revisit these testimonials regularly to cull those that are out-of-date and request more current entries.

Your action items this week are to ask for three written testimonials. Make it easy for the author by specifying what should be emphasized. Negotiate a delivery date and decide how you will deploy the information once received. Finally, develop a strategy to regularly ask for and review these comments. It goes without saying that you must earn these and seeking them regularly is an effective method to place your customer service level on a constantly improving plane.


© 2017 by Stephen Hand of Triangle BNI.
All rights reserved. No part of this document may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording, or otherwise, without prior written permission of Stephen Hand of Triangle BNI.


Written by bniguy

September 17, 2017 at 6:02 am

Be the Message

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“Any general statement is like a check drawn on a bank. Its value depends on what is there to meet it.” ~~Ezra Pound

The longer you are in business the more subject matter expertise you gain. This knowledge can be shared and leveraged if you consider a strategy for doing just that.

There are a number of resources at your disposal. Many publications, both virtual and physical, rely on quality content and editors are always seeking knowledgeable expertise to share with their readership.

Knowing this and taking action on it are two very different things and this can be a frustrating uphill climb until the first few opportunities appear. Therefore, select topics where you have both expertise and passion. At worst, you gain the advantage of sharpening your message while soliciting rejection letters and the passion will carry you through.

Nothing replaces activity for this process, so I will move directly to the action step.

First of all take an assessment of your personal expertise, unique perspective, and passion to share. Find potential venues that might welcome this information. Visit their websites and pay particular attention to the section targeting advertisers. This is who the publication would like to gain traction with. If your expertise aligns well that is a shortcut.

Second, outline four articles that reflect this expertise and will appeal to your intended forum. Four is a good number to choose as it is wide enough to provide breadth without diluting the message.

Once you have this arena in mind write a letter of introduction to each perspective editor and pitch your idea. Have a plan to deal with rejection. The best bet is to listen for what the editor is looking for and the rejection provides an opportunity to have that conversation.


© 2017 by Stephen Hand of Triangle BNI.
All rights reserved. No part of this document may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording, or otherwise, without prior written permission of Stephen Hand of Triangle BNI.


Written by bniguy

September 10, 2017 at 8:59 am

Posted in communication, HowTo, sales

The Press Release

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“Stand upright, speak thy thoughts, declare the truth thou hast, that all may share; Be bold, proclaim it everywhere: They only live who dare.” ~~Voltaire

Word-of-mouth marketing is the most cost-effective tool in a networker’s arsenal. That has been and remains the focus of this year’s weekly blog. Starting with January 1st and continuing every Sunday through the year, we are expanding and expounding on a single facet each week.

Today we turn our attention to a little-used resource that is seen by experts as the second-most cost-effective tool and consider the Press Release. Publicity is powerful, although it cuts both ways. Many small businesses do not have a publicity strategy in place.

Let’s first of all consider some differences and similarities between advertising and publicity.

Advertising presents a cohesive, planned message to the audience. In some cases the message is clear, although different levels are perceived and reacted to. It is medium-specific, targeted, and generally designed to motivate and/or educate. (Medium-specific refers to the delivery channel. Television ads may or may not differ from radio ads, print ads, signage, etc.) The most effective advertising brands the similar message and market via similar styles, tone, pacing, etc.

Publicity presents a cohesive message to the audience. In some cases the message is clear, although different levels are perceived and reacted to. It is not really medium-specific, although the delivery channel reflects the medium. Publicity is targeted, however, and generally designed to educate rather than motivate.

One of the key differences is based on who controls the message.

Advertising is paid publicity. The message is controlled by the business-owner who may hire copywriters, actors, advertising specialists, and a team of experts. Advertising campaigns may encompass any scope from international to local. Recipients (I will call them readers for simplicity’s sake, although they may be viewers, listeners, etc.) know that the message is purchased and they, therefore, retain a healthy skepticism. Advertisers attempt to break that down with humor, sincerity, statistics, repetition, and a number of other techniques. Companies that advertise pay for placement.

Publicity is usually free. This fact should not be overlooked by the small business owner and is also understood by the reader. You (or a professional writer) draft the press release and submit it to the channel for distribution. Someone at the news organization converts it into a format suitable for their readership and they determine the placement (if any.)

As noted earlier, publicity cuts both ways. We see that when politicians are caught in compromising situations. Their campaign slogan (advertising) is often used tongue-in-cheek when negative publicity plays. Saturday Night Live made this reverse-spin a famous staple, as do late night television comedians.

Assuming your business is ethically focused on helping customers solve a specific problem, publicity can be a useful avenue to consider. Most small business owners do not address that for three main reasons:

  1. They are not sure whether the message is newsworthy or not.
  2. If it is, they do not know how to write a press release
  3. On the off-chance they know how, they do not take the time to do it.

Let’s address each element individually.

In order to determine if something is newsworthy you must be completely honest in your assessment. The marketplace will certainly do that for you. Consider whether someone across town would be interested. Would the parents of your children’s school be interested? Would anyone waiting for their car to be repaired or standing in line at the grocery store be interested?

If they are unlikely to be then neither will the editor. In fact, this is the first test of the press release. If it is self-promotional or mindless fluff it won’t get past the editor—and rightly so.

Despite that there are press-release worthy events in your business you should consider. Perhaps you are opening a new location, introducing a new product line, celebrating an anniversary, recognizing significant growth, or chairing a fund-raising campaign. All of these are simple examples that may or may not work for you.

Your primary objective is to make an announcement of interest and value to the readership. Your objective is not to gain new customers, although you certainly won’t turn them away if they come as a result of it.

Once you have a suitable topic then it becomes a matter of writing the press release. Hiring a professional is certainly the best avenue although I know many of you are do-it-yourselfers so I am remiss in not sharing some valuable resources., for example, provides dozens of good examples, summarized below:

  1. Attract your reader with your title.
  2. Provide an interesting angle.
  3. Tell about your products or services in one or two clear sentences.
  4. Use timely, relevant information related to current events and/or trends.
  5. Deal only with facts—avoid fluff.
  6. Make it lively by using active verbs.
  7. Limit adjectives, adverbs, and jargon.
  8. Follow rules of grammar and style.
  9. Limit to one-page as often as possible.
  10. Make every word count and count every word.
  11. Include complete contact information (name, address, phone, after-hours contact info, web address, email, fax number, etc.)
  12. Make sure to include national and regional publications, radio and television stations, Internet publications, and all potential clients.

Once written it is time to submit the press release. You have two primary routes here and can use one or both. Under the paid process, subscribe to a distributions service such as Alternately, you can simply rely on your network to connect locally with people that review press releases for your community publications.

Finally, if you see the value yet lack the skill or time, hire a pro. Professionals can help determine newsworthiness, craft a compelling message, and ensure reception into the proper venues and media outlets.

This week you have three actions to undertake. First, brainstorm some suitable topics. This will actually be easier than you think—although it will take some effort to get started. Second, work the release through the twelve points above. If satisfied with the results, move on to action three. If not, contact a professional. They will appreciate the effort you have already applied and can make tremendous enhancements. Finally, schedule to revisit this exercise every quarter. Four effective press releases per year is a reliable, simple pace. If it takes you three weeks to prepare, back that time into the schedule, as well. As with any worthwhile effort, be prepared to track the results and adjust, as needed.

© 2017 by Stephen Hand of Triangle BNI.
All rights reserved. No part of this document may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording, or otherwise, without prior written permission of Stephen Hand of Triangle BNI.


Written by bniguy

September 3, 2017 at 9:53 am

Posted in communication, HowTo

What’s the Buzz?

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“The two words ‘information’ and ‘communication’ are often used interchangeably, but they signify quite different things. Information is giving out; communication is getting through.” ~~Sydney J. Harris

Last week we talked about becoming a subject matter expert and sharing your information—from an audience’s benefit perspective—in a real-time speaking environment. This week we expand more on the basic concept, especially in the introductory letter area.

Once you have developed a few solid topics and begun delivering that information, it is time to take it all up a notch and consider putting out a regular newsletter. Most of the people you think of as subject matter experts gained that reputation by delivering their knowledge and message through books, articles, and newsletters.

Before embarking on that task, though, consider what you want to accomplish by answering these questions:

  • What is the purpose of this newsletter?
  • Who is the target audience?
  • Why would that audience want to read it?
  • How will it benefit them?
  • How often will it go out?
  • How will it be distributed?
  • What features will it contain?
  • Who will write the content?
  • Who will design the layout?

A newsletter is a commitment of time and is an ambassador for you and your business. Typos, erratic delivery schedule, and disorganized presentation do not represent you well. Using a professional is almost always advisable.

That expert can make sure the right people get the right information at the right pace. Your readers should opt-in and find it very easy to opt-out, as well.

Your action this week is to consider a few newsletters you value and ask the authors a few key questions, such as the list above along with the time commitment, results derived, and so on.

© 2017 by Stephen Hand of Triangle BNI.
All rights reserved. No part of this document may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording, or otherwise, without prior written permission of Stephen Hand of Triangle BNI.

Written by bniguy

August 27, 2017 at 9:44 am

Posted in communication, HowTo

Speak Softly and Leave the Stick at Home

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“Before I speak, I have something important to say.” ~~Groucho Marx

Presenting your product or service to one person at a time is valuable and rewarding. Presenting the same information to a crowd is that much more significant. However, people don’t line up (generally) to hear your sales pitch. They are tuned to the “What’s in it for me?” frequency. Therefore, you should consider what you have to offer as a subject matter expert adding value to them.

Successful speakers talk more about Benefits than Features. There are many areas of interest in your profession if you look for them. A Realtor might talk about the current market conditions, what home improvements increase the value of a property, how to downsize effectively, and so on. A web developer might talk about being found on the Internet or using video on your website. There are as many valuable topics as features and you can craft each one from the benefits side of the equation.

Once you find a topic and develop an interesting presentation then you can seek out audiences. The topic itself helps identify these groups. You might consider employees, stay at home moms, independent insurance agents, baseball coaches, etc. Again, this is a wide-range of potential people. Many of these groups have regular get-togethers and are often looking for value-added speakers.

Once you find the target groups then you simply need an introduction. Here is where you can employ your network. I advise writing a short introductory letter and including some testimonials from others. One page is plenty.

Finally, look into your network of contacts and find out who can introduce you. Ask if they will deliver your introductory letter.

Once you secure an engagement, invite other decision-makers to attend and continue the cycle. Your profile will rise and your calendar will fill up.

Your action this week is to follow the recipe above. That is:

  • Define your topic(s) from a benefits perspective
  • Craft a short presentation on the topic. This should be custom-fit from fifteen minutes to one hour.
  • Determine your audience.
  • Craft an introductory letter.
  • Find contact points, people you know who can deliver your introduction effectively.
  • Rinse-lather-and repeat.

© 2017 by Stephen Hand of Triangle BNI.
All rights reserved. No part of this document may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording, or otherwise, without prior written permission of Stephen Hand of Triangle BNI.


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August 20, 2017 at 5:37 am

Little Soldiers

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“Any intelligent fool can make things bigger and more complex…It takes a touch of genius—and a lot of courage to move in the opposite direction.” ~~Albert Einstein

Everything you do has an impact in the marketplace. Some consequences are significant while many are not. Some are planned, others are not. Finally, some are positive and, sadly, some are not.

Let’s consider one of the small things that can have a large influence. Pull out your business card right now and take a look at it. What is that you say? You don’t have one with you? Without a business card ready to go you need to quickly implement a less effective Plan B—such as scribbling information on a napkin. If your intention is to cement the message that you are always unprepared, this is a great way to do it.

A well designed business card is an integral part of your marketing plan and will often provide your best return dollar-for-dollar. That is partly because it accompanies your most priceless marketing tool—which is you.

Fortunately you are always prepared and have your business cards ready—a few in your pocket, some in your glove box, and more in your car trunk—so you will never run out. Let’s examine one of these little soldiers a little closer.

A few weeks ago we talked about the importance of First Impressions. What impression does your business card convey? How is the quality? How is the condition? How memorable is it? Failures in these areas often lead to the business card storage facility where it is destined to be added to a bulging box of forgotten cards. This is an opportunity lost.

Realize, too, that a business card, while important, is limited in what it can accomplish. It is not a brochure, catalog, or website. Here are some considerations for your business card.

Style. Consider a style appropriate to you and your business. Cartoons may be very appropriate in some settings although probably not for a funeral director. Formal cards are usually less valuable for day-to-day services like auto repair. Find the balance for your business and support it in every element you present.

Pictures. Including a picture (or caricature) is a good way to reinforce the personal introduction. Hire a professional photographer—assuming you are a professional in your business. Choose pictures wisely and keep them current—replacing a picture after losing (or gaining) a lot of weight, for instance. Having a picture that reflects you from ten years ago hurts your image more than it helps. In some professions every competitor has a picture. In other cases no one does. Use this in considering whether to include one or not.

Tactile cards. These include die-cutting, special materials, unusual shapes, etc. and are almost always more costly as well as more memorable. As you imagine, these emphasize how creative you are.

Multi-purpose cards. Some cards include a call to action such as coupons or appointment reminders. Maps can enhance direction finding. Menu ideas, recipes, usage tips, and so on can also add value. The emerging technology of QR codes can open a larger world of dynamic information, as well.

Outside-the-box. Talk to your promotional items specialist for a number of clever ideas. Your card can be made of chocolate, include flashlights and other useful gadgets. There is a wide variety of other ideas that can make your card memorable and likely to be kept.

Dr. Ivan Misner wrote an excellent book about the subject, called Its in the Cards with more than 200 full color examples.

Once you have the card you want consider how to deliver it. If you attend many networking events, you are bound to meet the card shill. These people are intent on insuring that every person in the room has their business card and strafe through the crowd with only that intention. The best way to deliver your card is when someone asks for it. Commit yourself to that concept and you will find a better return on those cards that go out. Naturally, the simple shortcut is to ask for theirs first. As we discovered a few weeks ago human beings regularly exhibit reciprocity and they will likely ask for yours, in return. This is a good way to start developing your skills. In time, though, you want to progress to adding value in your conversation so that they will ask for your card first…often wanting more than one so they can make sure a friend or strategic alliance has it, as well.

Your action steps this week include the following:

A: Proofread your card. Look at each element carefully and closely. If it adds value—keep it. If not, consider replacing or removing it. Examine it for readability and typos.

B: Network with the intention of having other people request your card. Practice the skill of adding value to the people you meet.

© 2017 by Stephen Hand of Triangle BNI.
All rights reserved. No part of this document may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording, or otherwise, without prior written permission of Stephen Hand of Triangle BNI.


Written by bniguy

August 13, 2017 at 6:10 am

Posted in HowTo